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Why is it so easy to judge others and so easily we get annoyed for being judged

The first question you may ask “what is a judgment

Take it as god’s gift or his curse, we humans have the ability to judge, make a decision, or form an opinion objectively, authoritatively, and wisely. The forming of an opinion, estimate, notion, or conclusion, as from circumstances presented to the mind.
Our entire life we spent on evaluating others and what is laid in front of us. Every single situation, every experience, and every person.
Why is it so easy to judge other and so easily we get annoyed for being judged
Why do people judge other people?
It’s basically the limited set of information that they have about the other person or the negative feeling from the inner side. If you know the other person completely well then the same judgmental behavior will prove a boon while if you are judging a stranger you could be true but there is a high probability of it being wrong and that’s where it gets worse. It’s in the nature of all social animals “so-called humans”- to be judgmental, and, more to the point, to be able to judge others quickly. Why? Well, there are several reasons for this instinctive behavior.
Why is it so easy to judge other and so easily we get annoyed for being judged

Why do we judge people we don't personally know?

We, humans, are a very vocal species, a lot of our communication is still carried out by our bodies- that is body language. And you'd be even more surprised to know that, although we seldom are very consciously aware of the information, just how well you can get to "know" someone based solely on this silent means of communication. Because much of our acknowledgment of the information presented by body language is subconscious, it doesn't have a "silent mode" button- meaning we cannot "shut off". we notice other people's body language whether we want to or not- even if we aren't looking at them. Auditory cues tell us a lot about someone's behavior by watching their body language, mood, and, surprisingly, personality- how someone talks can tell you almost as much about them as the words they say, if not more. 
Why is it so easy to judge other and so easily we get annoyed for being judged



Thinking is difficult that's why people judge, is that right?

Human beings can only make decisions if they think one choice is better than other choices. That requires them to assign values to possible choices, possible actions, and possible outcomes. To put a value on something is to say it is “better” or “worse” than something else. This is a judgment, and human beings cannot operate in the world without making judgments.
It’s just the process of self-esteem. The less self-esteem and the worse someone feels about themselves, the more likely they will judge people they don’t know. By commenting on their appearance, gossiping, saying hateful things (like racists), and making themselves feel “bigger” in the process.
The bigger problems start to happen when people are forced to live together, and are dependent upon one another or indirectly tied together, but they don’t all share the same values.
Judging others is another human trait, everyone judges everyone. Whether it is good or bad? It really depends on the situation.
Why is it so easy to judge other and so easily we get annoyed for being judged


In short, if you walk down the public gathering and see someone who you just get the inexplicable hunch that you don't or wouldn't like, it's not really about you but about what you pick up from their body language and possibly even the sound of their voice. now why you may not like what you see or why you do is dependent on your personality, as well as theirs. personality is reflected very heavily in the way we carry ourselves. our mind has been programmed to be able to consciously recognize the social cues given by other person body language, and use them as they need. for more information about what certain body language cues may mean, its better you look it up, or ask a separate question.
Why is it so easy to judge other and so easily we get annoyed for being judged


In my opinion and other scientific research, its proven that peoples think they know everything. basically, they don't want to listen to others point of view. they already tend to have a notion about what should be the possibility of seeing other peoples conditions.thre are many possibilities in life but eventually, they are overlooked and some may call this as personal ego. peoples try to put you in a box telling your boundaries and limitations. It takes hardly a minute to form an image of you in their minds which won't change until something dramatic happens. if you think someone has judged you because they either don't care about you or they never intended to listen to you properly. also, there are only a few peoples who will put themselves in your shoes. so it is really easy to judge someone on the basis of limited subjects, mistakes giving life lessons, rude behavior, ego etc. other than having the patience to know the person inside out.
Why is it so easy to judge other and so easily we get annoyed for being judged


Why do peoples usually judge consist of many reasons as mentioned below
  •      To make fun of others
  •      Comparison
  •      peace of mind
  •      satisfaction
  •      Enjoyment
  •      when one feels bad
  •      In anger
Just like the famous saying goes “We are far more our choices than abilities.”


Why is it so easy to judge other and so easily we get annoyed for being judged


In conclusion! Coming back to the same question, why is it so easy to judge others and so easily we get annoyed for being judged? it is because of the societal norms, civilizations.it go hand in hand with biased thoughts, the kind of people you hang around with. maybe to show other inferior, maybe to hide their own insecurities, and maybe to prove themselves right and try to be superior.